A while ago I got to thinking about what it is that I really want in life. What do I truly value that should be my guiding mantra?
Living a life full of happiness always seems like an important goal! Even if that happiness isn’t being felt in the moment, I want to strive to have a high level of contentment and lots of moments of pure joy. Who wouldn’t, right?
I am a person who can tend to be a little serious and definitely INTENSE at times, so a reminder to always seek joy is a good thing for me. I want to laugh from my belly everyday. I want to take time to play. All too often at the end of a long day at home with the kids I realize that although I may be content with the day I didn’t take the time to be silly and really PLAY. Tomorrow is a new day though, and I hope I can approach it just slightly differently…
The drive towards sustainable living is something that just keeps building in me. It’s one of those things where the more you learn the harder it is to ignore. According to climate change researchers, “Reducing consumption and achieving more sustainable lifestyles represents the most effective way to reduce carbon emissions”. This idea is so powerful yet most of us struggle to minimize our own consumption. It’s also the source of so much of the seriousness that keeps me from being more joyful. Like everything REALLY does matter! Because if one person can do something different one time it MATTERS. And if I can inspire ONE person to do something in a way that is better for themselves it can make a difference!
Somehow I’ve never outgrown the idealist part of myself that emerged as a teenager and won’t stop believing that change is possible. I think the belief that every little thing matters is what makes that sort of belief at all possible.
Because it DOES! Anytime I think about a choice for myself I think, what if everyone made this same choice? How would it affect things? Would it make the world healthier and happier or not? You know, the whole butterfly wing thing just keeps me driven. If I can’t imagine and do it myself how could I expect other people to do it?
Of course this tends to lead me into perfectionism at times… but that has gotten much better for me over the years! I allow myself to make mistakes and to occasionally not separate out the compost from the trash. But it kind of hurts me to do that! It’s just part of who I am I think. I NEED to take it seriously.
I also want and need support in trying to live this way. To live better and to love the world better. I want to create a place where people can come together to discuss ways that they are working towards consuming less and striving for a more minimalist approach to life. Once you start opening your heart and mind up to questioning the status quo and trying to live mindfully (rather than mindlessly consuming mainstream values and habits) it is hard to unlearn and unsee the truth.
So, I’ve created a Facebook group to support these goals. It started out as a place for friends to support each other on our KonMari journeys but has evolved as we have evolved. Using KonMari to get in touch with what REALLY matters and sparks joy in life is an AMAZING step. But let’s keep putting one foot in front of the other as we move towards our visions of living simple happy lives filled with joy where we are truly AWAKE to our affects on the world around us. What’s working for you? What’s challenging? Let’s talk!
Here’s the link to my Facebook group if you want to join!
(Source on causes of climate chage) http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2013/11/131114193245.htm